67. Why High Performers Struggle to Disconnect—and How to Break Free
HIGH PERFORMERS — SECRETS OF THE CAREER GAME — EPISODE 67
High performers, listen up. Kendall Berg exposes why your inability to disconnect isn’t dedication – it’s a trap. Break free from the toxic cycle of tying your worth to your job title and discover how real rest fuels success in 2025.
With a dose of self-awareness and humor, this episode is your guide to navigating the corporate hustle while keeping your sanity intact. Harvard research reveals the shocking toll of back-to-back meetings, while Berg shares battle-tested strategies to recharge without guilt. Stop wearing burnout as a badge of honor.
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Key Takeaways
The Importance of Disconnecting and Recharging (00:00–05:38)
- High performers struggle to disconnect from work
- Self-worth is often tied to job titles and productivity
- Taking breaks is essential for mental health and well-being
- Harvard study recommends 5-minute gaps between meetings and 30-minute walks
Strategies for Effective Disconnection (05:39–11:48)
- Understand personal recharging preferences
- Carve out time for important activities, and remove unimportant ones
- Set specific windows for checking work emails during time off
- Use PTO to fully disconnect from work mentally
Identity Beyond Work (11:49–18:21)
- Avoid tying self-worth solely to job title or work performance
- Develop interests and skills outside of work
- Challenge: Pick a hobby for 2025 to explore
- Balance multiple self-care activities without burnout
Finding Passion and Connection (18:22–24:56)
- Importance of having hobbies and interests outside work
- Hobbies provide ways to disconnect and decompress
- Rest doesn’t equal laziness; it’s about energy recovery
- Human connection is crucial, especially during holidays
- Gratitude for community engagement and sharing thoughts
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